By Daily Mail (U.S.) | Created at 2024-11-01 20:37:33 | Updated at 2024-11-01 22:25:18
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Skinnygirl mogul Bethenny Frankel is offering her viewers some sage relationship advice, warning them to 'never settle', especially if things don't feel right.
Frankel, 53, took to TikTok to share her wisdoms in a new video that was posted Friday.
The former Real Housewives of New York star's guidance comes just years after she was embattled in a contentious divorce with ex-husband Jason Hoppy.
The two filed for divorce in 2013, but it wasn't finalized until 2021.
Frankel was briefly engaged to longtime boyfriend Paul Bernon, who she met in 2018, but split from this year.
Skinnygirl mogul Bethenny Frankel is offering her viewers some sage relationship advice, warning them to 'never settle', especially if things don't feel right
The former Real Housewives of New York star's guidance comes just years after she was embattled in a contentious divorce with ex-husband Jason Hoppy
Frankel was briefly engaged to longtime boyfriend Paul Bernon, who she met in 2018, but split from this year
In the new video, the BStrong founder explained that there was a 'critical' question you need to ask yourself in a relationship - and that's if it's 'good' or 'great.'
'If you don't know yes, it's no,' Frankel said.
'If you have something in your body questioning your relationship, and it's like, even very good but not great, that's not good enough, because you're not going to settle,' she warned.
Frankel promised that when you find the courage to end a relationship that might not be sitting right with you, that is when you will 'open yourself up' to finding the 'real thing.'
'You will thank yourself, you will say, I'm so proud of myself for having the courage,' she continued.
'Because when you jump, you fly, so you are not going to settle,' the former Big Shot With Bethenny star urged TikTok viewers.
She likened the situation to food, explaining that we don't eat things that are average, we eat something that's 'amazing' or not at all.
Her philosophy doesn't just extend to relationships, either.
The BStrong founder explained that there was a 'critical' question you need to ask yourself in a relationship - and that's if it's 'good' or 'great'
'Because when you jump, you fly, so you are not going to settle,' the former Big Shot With Bethenny star urged TikTok viewers
'We don't go out and half a** it, we don't work at a five, we do it or we don't, so that's how it's gonna be, with work, with life, with friendships, with food, with travel, with whatever, and with relationships,' she shared.
'You go all the way, or you don't go at all,' the Mingle Mocktails creator said.
'You shoot for the stars, and you will get it. Trust the process.'
And, in the comments section of her video, many users seemed to agree with her sentiment, sharing their own success stories.
'100 percent. Left my good relationship for something greater and never looked back. Don’t let them convince you mediocrity is something to want,' one person wrote.
Another shared, 'So true. I have friends and people I date tell me I am being too picky or looking for something wrong but I just feel like I don't want to settle.'
'REAL! I left a relationship I could’ve stayed in comfortably for life. Met my husband one year later and he’s my soulmate don't give up on yourself,' someone else typed.
