I'm 32 and Single. This Is What I've Learned.

"Trust the timing" or "when you know, you know" are offered up as solid evidence, but to those of us on the outside, these are abstract concepts we have no idea how to interpret or grasp. Trust me, I've heard it all, too. "Maybe if you stop wanting it, then it will come to you!" At this point in my life, I've heard every version of this advice, and I honestly don't know what to do with it anymore.