The 20 signs your relationship is coming to an end - and how you can fix things before it's too late

By Daily Mail (U.S.) | Created at 2024-12-25 14:01:58 | Updated at 2024-12-26 01:23:48 11 hours ago
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  • The study analyzed 2,000 people in romances
  • It detailed the signs your romance is fading 
  • The study also shared how you could save your love life from being doomed

By KELSI KARRULI FOR DAILYMAIL.COM

Published: 13:56 GMT, 25 December 2024 | Updated: 13:58 GMT, 25 December 2024

A new study has detailed the shocking signs that your romance may be coming to an end - and revealed the top methods to fixing things before it's too late. 

The research, which was conducted by Bryant and May, found that there are 20 indications that a relationship is hitting murky waters - from a dwindling sex life to arguments over small issues.

Other signs that your relationship isn't working anymore, according to the study, are: you spend more time on social media than talking to your partner and you don’t 'try as hard' to look nice for a night out.

In addition, when you and your partner stop saying 'I love you,' kissing each other goodbye, or cuddling at night, it could mean that things are fizzling out.

The study, which analyzed 2,000 adults, also found that lovers sleeping in different rooms, eliminating date nights, or going to bed at separate times are more hints of a failing romance are when

Forgetting to compliment each other and avoiding celebrating holidays together may also mean that you're on the brink of a breakup.

Luckily, if you and your partner are exhibiting these signs, it doesn't mean your romance is definitely over just yet. 

Lovers can relax knowing that the study also detailed the various ways that people can save their relationships.

A new study has detailed the shocking signs that your romance may be coming to an end - and revealed the top methods to fixing things before it's too late (stock image)

Signs that your relationship isn't working, according to the study, are: you spend more time on social media than talking to your partner and you don’t 'try as hard' to look nice (stock image)

There are a slew of things you can do to bring the spark back into your love, including working extra hard to listen to one another and going out of your way to tell your partner you love them.

Other ways to bring the passion back, per the study, is to book a weekend away in the middle of nowhere, kiss more often, or making small, random gestures such as sending flowers or a card for no particular reason. 

You can also try spicing things up behind closed doors, flirting with your partner, enjoying a romantic evening out, and putting your phones away so you can spend quality time together.

According to the study,  the spark in a relationship begins to fade on average about five years and two months after it began. 

Four in 10 participants revealed that they often take their partner for granted. 

Many who participated in the study cited daily work and life tasks as a reason for their failing relationships, as they claimed that their romance was forgotten in the midst of the chaos. 

A spokesperson for Bryant and May matches told The Independent: 'It can be really easy to let the magic of the early stages of a relationship fade away.

'And by the same token, once that initial stage has worn off, it’s often very difficult to bring it back.

'This can lead to people ending up staying in relationships that might not be making them happy, just because they are afraid of breaking up with their partner.'

Trouble in paradise? Here's how to know if your relationship is ending and how to save the spark 

The signs your romance is failing             How to save your relationship 

You stop having sex

You don't say 'I love you'

No date nights

Don't do things together

Let yourself go

Sleep in different beds

Argue often

No hand-holding

Cheating

You don't cuddle 

Going to bed at different times

You opt for sleep over sex

The thought of having sex with them is gross

No celebrations  

You'd rather go on holiday with your friends than your partner

You spend more time on social media than talking to your partner

Don't kiss goodbye 

You don’t "try as hard" to look nice for a night out

No couch cuddling 

 Constant criticizing 

Listening to each other

Telling them you love them

Booking a weekend away in the middle of nowhere

Kissing more often

Making small, random gestures such as sending flowers or a card for no particular reason

Spicing things up in the bedroom

Flirting with each other

Going for a candlelit dinner

Going abroad to a romantic city like Paris or Venice

Putting your phones down

Getting dressed up for your partner such as for an event or dinner

Taking up a hobby together

Cooking together

Looking through a box of memories to remember why you love each other

Going for a spa weekend/day together

Buying new underwear

Trying something new together like an exercise class

Buying a pet together

Deleting social media

Spending more time apart so you enjoy each other's company more

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